Whom to choose

"Be careful of who you give your heart to. Because when you give your heart to someone, you also give the person the power to destroy you. "

 

What if you have to choose between the one you love and the one who loves you?? 

 Whom do you choose?

 and to make things more complicated.. let's make this broader.

What if this guy loves you so much and tries everything just to make sure you'll feel it..Doing everything he can to make you feel special.. Much effort. Does not fail to make you feel that you're his only girl in the world. Everybody likes him for you. Treats you right, exactly the way you wanted. Almost a perfect gentle man. A PERFECT LOVER (almost). Honest, the one you could give your full trust because he doesn't want to LIE TO YOU. No Vices. Drinks occasionally. No third parties. Do things that you want and doesn't do things you hate. Doesn't let the day end knowing you're mad at him. Hindi ka niya natitiis pag nagtatampo ka sakanya. Cares for you every single minute of the day. Let's say, sometimes he's just coward to say it straight, but he makes sure you feel it. What more could not ask for? But you really could not feel a tiny chance to Love him back. kaya minsan sa sobrang labo mo,.. Nagiging inconsistent na siya,. at naghahanap ng iba. nasasaktan mo na siya.

on the other hand.. there's this guy whom You really love but is exactly the opposite of the other. Fails to make you feel special.. sometimes, it's like,, he's not there. No much effort because he knows you love him so much that you don't have the strength to leave him. Fails to make you feel that you're his only girl in the world. Almost everyone doesn't like him for you. Sometimes, he's not treating you well that it hurts already. DEFINITELY NOT THE PERFECT LOVER. The one you couldn't gain your full trust because you'll always find out he's lying to you and when got caught will still LIE infront  of you. Definitely has vices you hate. Third parties? I don't know. maybe? you can never tell. Do things that you really Hate. Can end the day even he knows you're mad at him. Doesn't give a damn. Matitiis ka niya pag nagtatampo ka sakanya. and ofcourse because you love him,, ikaw pa yung manunuyo, di mo matiis e. Ni hindi mo nga alam kung may care siya sayo e. BUT UNDERNEATH IT ALL, YOU still love him with all your heart..kahit anong kasalanan niya sayo, you still give him a chance and forgive him.kahit nasasaktan ka na niya.

NOW PEOPLE. TELL ME? is this easy? enlighten me.